Wedding dress code wording: what each term means
How to write a wedding dress code on your invitation, from black tie to casual to beach, with a plain-language explanation for guests and a picker that writes it.
Write the dress code in one or two words on the invitation, such as "Black tie" or "Cocktail attire", and explain it in plain language on your website. Guests often misread terms like "semi-formal", so a short description saves a lot of messages. Pick your dress code below for both pieces of wording.
Dress code wording your guests will understand
Pick the dress code and copy the line for your invitation plus a plain-language explanation for your website.
What each term means
| Term | In plain words |
|---|---|
| Black tie | Tuxedo or dark formal suit, and a floor-length gown or equally formal dress |
| Formal | Dark suit and tie, or a long or midi dress |
| Cocktail | Suit, with or without a tie, or a knee-length or midi dress |
| Semi-formal | Smart suit or jacket, or a dress or smart separates |
| Dressy casual | Nice trousers and a shirt, or a sundress |
| Beach formal | Light fabrics, flat shoes, no heavy suits |
These are common meanings. They vary by country, region and family, which is why a line on your website helps.
Where do you put the dress code?
On the invitation, at the bottom corner, under the reception line, or on a small enclosure card. On the website, in its own section with a few words of explanation and a picture if you can. See what to put on your wedding website.
How to explain a colour or a theme
If you want guests to wear a colour, or avoid one, say so kindly and give an option: "We would love to see jewel tones, but wear what makes you feel good." Do not ask guests to avoid white without explaining why; most know the convention, and a gentle note is enough.
Think about the setting
An outdoor venue means shoes that cope with grass or sand, and a winter wedding means coats. A line such as "The ceremony is outdoors on grass" helps guests more than a name for the dress code.
What if guests ask?
Reply with the plain-language description from the website, and a link. If many guests ask, change the wording.
For the rest of the card, see the wedding invitation wording guide.
Questions
How do you write a dress code on a wedding invitation?
Put one or two words, such as "Black tie" or "Cocktail attire", at the bottom of the card, and explain it in plain language on your website.
What does semi-formal mean for a wedding?
A smart suit or jacket for men, and a dress or smart separates for women. Dressy, but not all out.
Can I ask guests to wear a colour?
Yes. Say it kindly and make it optional, such as "We would love to see jewel tones".
Should the dress code be on the invitation or the website?
Both. The invitation gives the term, and the website explains what it means for guests.
What if there is no dress code?
You can say "Dress as you like" or leave it out. If guests may be unsure, add a line about the venue, such as outdoor grass or a formal hotel.